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Try and try harder
Try and try harder Today I must keep repeating to myself...."Don't be a bitch, don't be a bitch...." But, I do want to bitch, it's put me in a foul mood and unfortunately, others have and will suffer because of it. If you make plans with someone. Keep them! I understand things come up that can't be avoided (your dad has a heart attack), that I understand and will reschedule for. I have things come up too (getting sick because, let's face it, are germy little beings), hopefully "you" would be understanding in that situation and reschedule. But, waiting until the night before or day of to say "oh, my mom planned a family dinner"? Nope, unacceptable. You either knew about this several days ago and could have tried to reschedule for another night. The selfish side of me thinks telling Mom you've made a date and have already rescheduled twice would be the best plan...I'd like to think that in many years when it's my , he'd be responsible enough to tell me, "hey I've got plans that night, any way we can do the family thing the night before or after". So, now I have to be nice to everyone else while I'm annoyed that my plans have been changed on me again at the "last minute". If you talk to me today and my inner bitch surfaces, now you know why...but please (politely) remind me that I really do want to not take it out on the world today. Also, if you have plans with someone, remember they have arranged their entire schedule to fit you into it...don't be a dick, show up. |
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Lol,u must be new here. Arranging meets then deactivating accounts or blocking my messages is pretty much the norm for me. I stay for the cams
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I agree with you 100%. I hate when people do that. I had a date today, but I'm sick as a dog, this damn cold going around. As soon as it hits, I called and cancelled my date for another day. Newest Poem: What Lies Beneath Newest HNW Post: Latest Story: Sleep Fuck is cumming... Virtual Symposium XXXVIII Think Spring by SC Twisted
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So not new here...as far as "how long I've been on this site", let's just say longer than most! Still drives me insane. It's also why I don't give second chances. This was a "special case" given the reasons for the first two cancellations. But as a general rule, if someone cancels or doesn't bother showing up, no matter how I met them (this particular guy wasn't even from this site), I don't waste my time agreeing to a second chance. Sinfulchocolat...that's the cold I had last week! Thankfully it's a fast moving sickness. My main issue is the waiting until the last minute to cancel. If you really aren't interested then don't schedule something. If something comes up, let them know as soon as it happens/you find out about. Don't wait until it's tie for your I show up!
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