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Purging My Urgings
Purging My Urgings My sex life has always been incredibly busy times separated by long droughts. I remember when a few months seemed like the end of the world. I'm coming up on 5 yrs now, and don't even mind. Prior to that, every weekend I was going to a hotel party, sex club, or hanging out with of my FWBs. Some of those friends lovingly called me "". Then one day, I just had enough. My new favorite word became "No". I got tired of being everybody's 3rd or 5th wheel, and finding a regular girl here is hard. Well, nearly 5 yrs later there's only thing that really bothers me. It bothers me that NOT having sex with someone does NOT bother me. I could care less. I can take care of my own needs, been doing that since I was 12. I know what I like, know what I need and when I need it. And I don't have to talk to myself about my feelings and I never ask myself, "what are you thinking?". I'm not saying I won't ever have a relationship, or dig out my inner and have another wild year, all I really know is, I'm OK with how life is going and don't feel the need to mess it up. I've seen similar descriptions on some women's profiles and wonder if this is the result of our social media/internet/connected society we live in today. Are we Generation Z? Zero love, Zero sex, Zero give a shit? |
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6/21/2018 7:44 pm |
Geez! What A Whore! [image]
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6/21/2018 8:24 pm |
It happens with not just sex and relationships but with pretty much everything else in life. We kind of just let go of things and we forget about how much we enjoyed them in the first place. You just need to put yourself out there. Go on dates even if you don't want to and soon you will start enjoying it again.
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Geez! What A Whore! [image] When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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6/22/2018 5:52 am |
Sooo, it looks like you're saying Dee Snyder is a whore. An honorable profession I might add.
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6/22/2018 5:53 am |
I need sex at least once a week or else I will go crazy
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OMG, is that who I look like? Yikes! I kinda do! I reread this post this morning, entire words missing, it took 30 minutes to re-edit it. Maybe curl the hair more and add lipstick then you're totally Dee Snyder. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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6/22/2018 7:00 am |
Yeah, I've been getting better at fill in the blank space. Maybe curl the hair more and add lipstick then you're totally Dee Snyder.
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6/22/2018 6:30 pm |
Hahahaha maybe that's what I need, a good toy and a shitload of batteries.
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6/22/2018 6:34 pm |
I find I have a lot more time for other things I like to do, so that's a good thing.
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I know we're not Generation Z, because that is officially a "thing", and they are way younger than us. I wonder if we are just growing disenchanted with the "seeking" not bringing any satisfactory results, and decided it's not worth the effort. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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6/23/2018 5:20 pm |
I know we're not Generation Z, because that is officially a "thing", and they are way younger than us. I wonder if we are just growing disenchanted with the "seeking" not bringing any satisfactory results, and decided it's not worth the effort.
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I was going to make same comment as FM, it's not just us, apparently it's the younger generation too! In their case I think you're right, it's the disconnectedness brought on by too much internet interaction and not enough RL face to face. In my case, yes I've kind of given up after years of on and off trying. I do have a long distance BFF who I get to have sex with every couple months, so I guess that takes the edge off. And hopefully keeps me from drying up into a shriveled husk and blowing away in the wind.
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6/24/2018 8:09 am |
I was going to make same comment as FM, it's not just us, apparently it's the younger generation too! In their case I think you're right, it's the disconnectedness brought on by too much internet interaction and not enough RL face to face. In my case, yes I've kind of given up after years of on and off trying. I do have a long distance BFF who I get to have sex with every couple months, so I guess that takes the edge off. And hopefully keeps me from drying up into a shriveled husk and blowing away in the wind.
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