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Negative Connotations  

DonnaChang 54F
458 posts
7/11/2018 11:09 am
Negative Connotations

For those who don't know, women do not like being called names. I know, some of you have not been properly raised or socialized. Do not tell us that you like "bitchy" women. It's all wrong and you are not getting laid. You might as well just said we are a bitch.

It is horrible when you come in contact with a woman that knows who she is and what she wants and speaks her mind. A woman that sets healthy boundaries is not bitchy or a bitch.

Get educated and know how to properly address a woman and you might get laid.

mc_justmc 63M

7/11/2018 3:02 pm

 This reminded me of a 3 way call I was on with my then wife and some lady at an insurance company that was denying a medical claim. Whenever my wife would say anything she would respond calling her "hun" in a very demeaning tone, like an older sibling would talk down to their ignorant younger sibling. After a few "huns" I took over the call and angrily referred to her as "hun" a few times and she shut right up. I don't call women names unless I know them real well. I know better.


luvs2grin 51M
358 posts
7/11/2018 11:57 am

 I 1000% agree! Boundaries are a tough thing for anyone to set and stick too at times, but they should always be respected. Hell, I don't understand why anyone would act that way, it's not going to do any good and is just plain fucking rude!

Although, the flipside happens too, there have been women who do the same thing. Get all rude and ignorant.

I want someone I can have a fun conversation with, joke without offending, and who respects me the way I do her. I see no reason that friendships and relationships, even sexual ones, cannot and shouldn't be built on a base level of respect. Otherwise, why bother being with that person. Even in BDSM there's respect.
I hope you don't run into anymore ignorant people!


DonnaChang replies on 7/11/2018 3:57 pm:
I know what you are saying. The relationship I have with coworkers often involves teasing with nicknames. But we've worked together for a while and built a rapport. You have to have that rapport before you start using names that otherwise would be considered negative.

DonnaChang 54F
212 posts
7/11/2018 11:17 am

 There are other words you shouldn't use to describe women, figure it out!


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