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Gregsturn69 53M
13 posts
2/15/2019 12:20 pm
Why no responses

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1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
2/15/2019 12:29 pm

Do you read the profile and send a thoughtful email stating why you reached out to them. Perhaps they are too busy? Try joining some groups and attend their meet and greets.


bitchkitty2017 71F

2/15/2019 12:49 pm

Well might wanna tone down yr kinks a bit...and if you don't get any responses hmmm...is that you in the pic with the three little pieces of dryer lint? ...some women don't like coming on a mans profile and seeing you all bunched up in a ménage au trios ..women know you can fuck and they all know what a bj is ..you got some nice pics so why they don't message back well is anyones guess...my two cents worth ...but what do I know...


Tsosdd1 54M

2/15/2019 12:58 pm

sometime the im function is just jacked up too.


Alan68856 52M

2/15/2019 1:28 pm

Hahahaha @bitchkitty2017 great response, also some pretty good, honest advice!


bushmastermc 56M
45 posts
2/15/2019 1:34 pm

I agree with the comment on the IM. Someone contacts you and everything locks up. Or it show you or them as online when in fact you or they are not... its jacked


VenusRedux2 49F
557 posts
2/15/2019 2:36 pm

Low quality pics aren't helping. You look like you're in a hypnotic trance. Ditch group photos, this isn't the place for it.

When looking at a pic, women are instinctively asking themselves "Can I see myself kissing this guy?"

Dead, lifeless eyes + Expressionless face + Two day stubble + Hoodie = Not getting a kiss, sorry.

Main profile pic being in sunglasses complicates the issue. Not the biggest travesty in the world, but you can do better.

Don't just thumbfumble the first pic the phone spits out at you. Take a dozen pics until you get it right. Take several dozen if need be! Yeah, that means grooming yourself appropriately. That means getting the lighting right. That means the background shouldn't be laundry. Etc, etc, etc.

Try a smile. Try a smirk. Try a little bit off to the side. Keep trying different things until something comes out right.

Suggestion: holding the phone at chest level makes you look down into the camera, that's universally accepted as the WORST camera angle possible. Try eye level or higher, look UP at the camera, never down.

And "Hard and Horny" is a major turn off, even if it is being used in the context of subverting the trope. There are better ways of presenting yourself as an every-man.


Gregsturn69 53M
8 posts
2/15/2019 2:46 pm

Thanks for your advice I clearly understand your points and will make the recomended changes I believe you are 💯 % right


MissManners22 54F

2/15/2019 3:52 pm

A pic of a fish? A pic of group sex with some less than savory looking women? If you are looking to appeal to wome maybe have a profile that is appealing to women?


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
2/15/2019 4:48 pm

If I may, I know I am older but will say what works for me. Big turn off is the action shot with any woman. Men like to see that stuff, most women don’t. You are an outdoors man. Most women don’t care about your kill or catch. . Once again, men like that, most women don’t care. I like a clean cut, facial hair is ok, just neat and trimmed. Straggly long hair is a no. A nice pic of your face and body is good. The “in your eye dick and cum shot” is a no.
Spread out anal and balls shot, ewww no.
You can still be hot and sexual and not be gross. You are attractive. It just takes the right approach. Good luck here.


Gregsturn69 53M
8 posts
2/15/2019 11:33 pm

Thank you I will change it all up


Gregsturn69 53M
8 posts
2/15/2019 11:34 pm

I really appreciate your advice and I will take it


BzzzBea 59F  
123 posts
2/16/2019 7:10 pm

there is no saying that you'll get any responses above what you've already achieved...

but, do realize that you need to be yourself so that the person can find you

best advice? share what helps YOU smile and feel fun/happy, energized. be silly or serious, or sexy, or an avid outdoorsman.

(((you are getting responses from people online who have mostly been here for a long time AND ARE older -- if your demographic of who you are looking for is younger or different, then their answers are more important than alot of old fuddy duddies)))


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