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Been thinking about how I got to xmatch. When I left my job at a large Chicago law firm, I was in office services,(purchasing, not an attorney), I moved to Sacramento California to get over a real stupid relationship. I was involved with a young woman and her boyfriend, that I worked with. I didn't realize it at the time, but I do believe I was depressed.

All I'll say about this woman and her boyfriend, making a long story short, was I believe I diluted myself into thinking it was me who she really wanted to be with, and not her high school sweet heart. So I moved to Sac; had friends living there that I grew up with, and my god father lived in San Francisco and really changed my lifestyle. Learned my current trade with the help of a man that was starting a new company and he wanted people who had no experience so he could train them the way he wanted.

That move was maybe the best thing I have done in my life.
Again making another long story short, I got home sick seven years later, I can back to Chicago. In between someone who I had always had a huge crush on, in my youth had got a divorced and when I got back started dating.

She was beautiful, drop dead gorgeous, and always thought that I was out of her league. She was the sister of a friend of mine who had gone through a real bad divorce. Her husband was a cheat and she caught him. We ended up dating for seven years. I would have married her in a heart beat, but thinking about someone and really getting to know them truly are two different things, and I came to the realize why he cheated.

This beautiful woman truly was a dud in bed. At 29 years old new nothing about sexuality. Got my first computer in the mid nineties, and came across Fuckspace.com - Sex Dating / Swinger Community. I broke up with her because I didn't want to hurt her and be the same kind of cheating bastard as her ex-husband. So I got lured in by the possibility of no strings sex.

That has not happened to me. Along the way emailing a billion women, wondering why they couldn't take the time to tell me to go fuck myself, that size really must matter, shaving myself to look bigger, (small snake looks bigger in short grass)and finally discovered the magazine. It was fun to read all the stuff, good and bad, and because of that I discovered most of you.

Kim, Roberta, Kurt, Linda, puckernut, were all great reads. Than reading Dwayne's stuff, the battle with Mitch, and seeing Kevin's responses to post and his signature referencing hockey, Mindy, Dionne, Jimbo and getting to know the rest of you; if you don't believe anything I have ever said believe this; I would have been long gone a long time ago if it were not for the friendships made here.

Okay now everybody go get a web cam and get naked.

We've been waiting for you!

This is a great thread, I would like to know what the startup business was and what your current dareer is.

Thank you for liking my nonesense. I truely love all the jokes you bring here. I may not post a coment on all of them but I do read and laugh.

I agree with you 2000percant, it's great to have such a wonderful group of friends.

Hanu forwarded an email I'm sure she'll post here later and you will enjoy it.
See ya in the funny pages,

Jim

How about a good joke now?

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We laugh, we cut up, we get silly but most of all we have formed real friendships here. I look forward to coming here and catching up on whats new with the group. We have shared in triumphs and some sorrows, worried when some of our members had heart issues, cheered when certain members of our group finally got lucky and thru it all we keep getting closer forming an invisible bond. {=}