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Why is it so difficult to get information within these groups?
Re-posted October 19th, 2013
Here's information we've received from members in or around those areas. These adult bookstores and/or theaters do have web-site information. Gastonia, NC...I-85 Exit 17, Hwy 321(N), on the right hand side about 1/2 mile. Carolina Video Exchange. It has 3 theater only, NO booths with glory holes.
CVE has 3 theaters that are for anyone who wants to go in there. No seating differences (couples and singles mix) in any of their theaters. People do play there and the lighting is pretty low so you can do just about anything you want to do. As long as most people are seated in the theaters nothing is ever said to you no matter what is going on. If hallways are blocked or people are hovering and not seated they do have people disperse for fire safety reasons. CVE also has a couples room where anything goes. It is couples only. If you get lucky another couple is there with you. Most attendance is on Saturdays and sometimes Wednesdays cause couples get in free then. CVE is kept very clean and neat. Safety from other people attending and from getting caught is not a problem at all at CVE. For a couple it is the one I would recommend. The men that attend there will do whatever the couples ask of them. Some say leave us alone and I've never seen a problem. Very respectful crowd. |
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CVE has 3 theaters that are for anyone who wants to go in there. No seating differences (couples and singles mix) in any of their theaters. People do play there and the lighting is pretty low so you can do just about anything you want to do. As long as most people are seated in the theaters nothing is ever said to you no matter what is going on. If hallways are blocked or people are hovering and not seated they do have people disperse for fire safety reasons. CVE also has a couples room where anything goes. It is couples only. If you get lucky another couple is there with you. Most attendance is on Saturdays and sometimes Wednesdays cause couples get in free then. CVE is kept very clean and neat. Safety from other people attending and from getting caught is not a problem at all at CVE. For a couple it is the one I would recommend. The men that attend there will do whatever the couples ask of them. Some say leave us alone and I've never seen a problem. Very respectful crowd. | ||||
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We're a couple (real wife involved) planning on going to CVE, Annabell's, or Laura's, as soon as, we receive some kind of reply to our posted topic. We always travel out of state for situation like this, for discretionary reasons. BUT,,we need a little information about these places before wasting gas and time. Adult theaters and video booth work for our spur of the moment lifestyle. SO,,we could use a few informational replies to our post if a few of the group members would be so kind. Give enough information by a few group members, We'd like to invite those members that help us out.
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