[COLOR darkred][B][SIZE 4]I have made "friends" on here that I chat with regularly, outside of these few select people, I have no interest in men or new couples (however if I flirt with you then I am interested). I am here to find a woman to have an ongoing encounter/relationship with.[/SIZE][/B] [/COLOR] [SIZE 2]I am very attracted to women and love the boobies! I [COLOR red]LOVE[/COLOR] kissing! But I am very picky about who I kiss. In the bedroom: I have plenty of toys, and would enjoy sharing them. I'm a little shy, due to lack of experience, but don't take that to mean that I don't know what I want. If you need to have your man present to feel "safe" then this won't happen with me. Your man is not welcome to "just watch" or to "only touch or play with you", that is NOT a 1 on 1 situation, which is what I prefer. I do expect that we will get to know each other before we move to a sexual relationship, so if you don't feel safe with me at that point, we will part ways as friends. A few things that are very important to me are ABSOLUTE honesty, respect, and consideration as you will get nothing less from me. If at any point during our interaction I find that you have not been honest with me or lied to me about anything at all, regardless of how small, our acquaintanceship is DONE. I don't have time for BS. I am not interested at all in dealing with anyone's hang ups about their past relationships/marriages, if you aren't over it or haven't come to terms with the fact that it has ended, then you aren't ready for me. I 100% DON'T do drama![/B][/SIZE][/SIZE] I am married and I do have a job, my availability to chat, meet and play is limited, please be respectful of that. DESCRECTION IS ABSOLUTE[/SIZE]

My Ideal Person :

Searching for that undeniable chemistry, like static electricity in the air, a spark or tingle you feel when you make initial eye contact, you just know when you click. The attraction will be more than just physical appearance, personality plays a huge part in that.

Ideally I would like to find another woman, who is looking for a relationship, rather than a casual hook-up, I'm not really into that scene. I want a BFF w/benefits, to be perfectly honest.

I workout every day after work and do my best to stay in shape and healthy, but I am not in perfect shape by any means, so a few extra pounds are nothing to worry about. Exceptional hygiene is a must, absolutely STD free, as well as being well groomed or shaven downstairs.

Our time together will not be just about sex, I want a real friendship, not just fuck buddies. I will be very selective about who I play with. It's about quality not quantity, I am not into having multiple partners (several playmates at the same time) or being with those who do, as sexual health is a huge concern in this day and age. I prefer to find a playmate that is of the same mindset, and is interested in an ongoing arrangement.

For all of you men, single, married or otherwise (I WILL SEEK YOU OUT if I am looking): Your flirts, picture likes, comments and hotlists are appreciated (I like to be looked at). I will contact you if I am interested. A few things for you to know that will spark my interest in you, the initial attraction..... I prefer tall (6'+), dark hair, blue or green eyes, muscular (don't have to be a bodybuilder) just a little bit of definition. Facial hair is sexy, if you have it, provided it is well kept and groomed, I'm not feeling it for ZZ top or Grizzly Adams. I find tasteful ink to be sexy as well, again, if you have it. If you are just covered with ink and very little of it is discernible, I'm most likely not going to find it attractive. If you have an issue with using protection, please move on, that is not a negotiable point for me. Not meeting this whole criteria is not a deal breaker, with the exception of not using protection.

Friend requests will NOT be accepted until we have gotten acquainted through messaging, then other means of communication. If you are seriously interested, you will put in the time, just as I will.

If you send me a message, you will need to send me a password (my favorite color) to let me know you have actually taken the time to read my entire profile. Just one message from you will not make me accept a friend request or if you are only sending a FR to get access to my private albums, that won't work either, there is a reason they are not accessible to the general membership.

Blue is my favorite color. If it's not included in your message somewhere, you will not get a reply from me.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Threesomes

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, personality

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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