I am demisexual and a masochist pain slut. I can be dominant but prefer to be submissive. I am good with poly, open and/or traditional relationships. I have explored them all and each have there upsides and downsides. I firmly believe that every relationship is different and how that relationship is structured should be decided by those involved. I am not interested in one night stands and am looking for something more long term. I am a pagan witch and work graveyard. I like to write, read, read tarot and am currently obsessed with asian tv series. I am more of an introvert and quiet but not really shy. I like my own company and am fine being by myself. When going out I like activities that don't require much talking.

My Ideal Person Here are some things that I think are important for you to know about me.

I'm interested in a true dom who likes to cause physical pain and/or a sub who I can play with.

I'm demisexual so gender, looks and age doesn't matter much to me. I do need to catch feelings in order to feel attracted to someone. I want to stress the fact that it doesn't matter how hot you are considered by the general public or how unattractive you think you are, I will not find you attractive until I have established an emotional connection with you. Appearance is very clinical to me. The best way I can describe it is like looking at a painting. You can see the beauty in it and it can be intriguing but you don't want to run you hands all over it and fuck it.

My hard no's are water and scat play, electricity, latex (allergy) and anything that causes bleeding. I have or would try pretty much everything else.