Respect and comfort comes above all, its what we offer and what we expect in return. Both are straight but have no issues, she being willing to explore if the situation fits, he is not, so dont bother asking. Neither have specific types. We want to build TRUST...FRIENDSHIP first and foremost. Its very important to us.I believe that just because we are in the lifestyle should not stop us from being gentlemenThe art of seduction should be done subtly, you coax a flower open, you dont use forceIt is like a dance, that starts with eye contact, some flirtatious conversation, followed by perhaps a gentle slightly lingering touch to the upper arm or the lower back, read the body language, how close does she stand, is she open or closed in her body languagetry to react to her signals, and not to focus on what U wantin a sexually charged environment is hard not to be heavy handed, but I still believe that you savour a fine bottle of wine, not chug it,After the seduction has progressed , then you can show her how much you desire her,But really as males, we are fooling ourselves if we think we are in charge of any aspect of this, as in the rest of life, the women will guide us in the direction and at the speed that they want us to go. lolMALESWe take time and choose the male participants carefully as you just dont know who is on the other end of the keyboards at times.The guys must have an understanding of what a woman is enjoying and doing whilst having a fun sexual times.A male that gets turned on by hearing, and seeing a woman get pleasured by others is a male that is in the right head space to be a succesful member of a fun time group.Resepctful males and well mannered guys go to the top of the list.We would love to have a good stable of horny studs availabshe says Id like to have sex more often, .. if the guys didnt make it so meaningless or chorelike. Seduce me, turn me on, stimulate my mind, make me to want it!We like our first couple of meetings to be drinks or something social, we dont go straight to naked the first time.UPDATE WE COULD POSSIBLE CONSIDER HOSTING AT HOMEWe are not perfect and do not expect perfection in others. Our ideal male is clean, discreet, easy going and willing to spend the time to relax, not just jump into the sack. She can be a little on the shy side so would prefer chatting a bit then meeting in a casual atmosphere then go from there. Playtime will be limited so we would like to make it count. Quality not quantity is our goal. At this point we will only be playing as a couple so if your interest is to play separately we are not for you, thank you anyway.THOSE MALES WITH BEER BELLIES ,, NEED NOT APPLYwe are you average next door couple ,,,look for same ,,, not lookin for head games or liars ,,lookin for horney be of slim toB ,,,D amp D free and clean ,,,She is 57 and he is 63 we are a fun casual married couple, in a small town so discretion is extremely important to us and we expect the same from those we meet we like to keep this our little secret COLOR red.. COLOR darkblueBSIZE 5We are looking for str888 male who play alone.. quotNOTquot looking for female.We dont want any hangups to stand in the way of having a great sexual experience. We are both very easygoing, laid back and fun to be with. Dont be shy and send us a message. Also, we like the idea of being friends first this way we can get to know each other first and see if we all get along. If this appeals to you, we are eager to get to know you. We are dd free, discreet and expect the same. We only play as a couple . P.S. We are NOT Ken and Barbie so if thats what youre looking for youve come to the wrong place. .... also we are not interested in meetin and hopping in bed 12 hr after meetin ,,, we want to build ,,,TRUST...FRIENDSHIP first and foremostSHE ,, 57 ,, 5ft 4 .. 36dd ,, ,,,HE 63, 5ft 6 ,, str8,,,, VERY HAPPILY married,,,,is only looking for hot sexy fun,,WITH NO committments or any strings attached ,, not looking for committments just soul satisfying fun ,,We are happily married 42 yrs now.. Our marriage has been an open one for testing the waters..off and on. My wife and I NEVER,, play alone ,, would like to play with other singles..and play together with other couples. Hey, dont judge meus..it may not work for u..but its working for us. Besides..im NOT here to IMPRESS anybody.Just to add that while my marriage IS an open one..its not something I want the entire world meaning unsuspecting family members and friends who may be lurking here to be aware of LOLAll we lookin for is some fun. we NOT looking to fall in love..we already have that. Just a bit of playtime on the side sort of thing. Friendship first tho!What we are looking for HUMOUR is the most important. we love to laugh...love to keep things fun and light. U gotta have a great sense of humour. we cant stand dry, tightasses lol Im a at heart Maturity..its one thing to be a little goofy im guilty of it too lol..its another to act 15 when ure 35 Intelligence..gotta have something to talk about in between sessions right lolI have ren..my ren and my wife r my priority..i play when i get free time..sometimes its often..other times its not so often.What im attracted to as i said above..a great sense of humour. Im very nonjudgemental and incredibly openminded. Physically there DOES have to be somewhat of an attraction..but im far from superficial and would expect the same from you. Also the ability to carry on a conversation is also a must. No sense being shy!So..there it is..if interested..drop me a line. Cant wait to get to know ya!GUYS your profiles filled in with the answers PREFER NOT TO ANSWER WILL NOT get you any points with usTO ALL MALES, THE FEMALE SAYS YOU SHOULD HAVE THE PUBIC AREA SMOOTH SHAVEN OR AT THE LEAST VERY WELLL TRIMMED WOULD LUV TO FIND REGULAR FUCK BUDDYShe is shy...reserved...but once you get to know her...she can be giddy and fun and loves to laugh. Together we are in love and looking for something to spice things up a lil. We do not like playing games. Prefer to be very open and honest and dont want to feel like we are in high school again. We are looking for friends first and foremost. NO expectations!!!NO BED HOPPERS ,,, We like sitting around having a few drinks and talking. We enjoy meeting new people and trying new things. We are open to trying anything at least once and hopefully we will like it....UPDATEGUYS your profiles filled in with the answers PREFER NOT TO ANSWER WILL NOT get you any points with usBLACK STUDS ARE VERY MUCH ENCOURAGED TO CONTACT USTO ALL MALES, THE FEMALE SAYS YOU SHOULD HAVE THE PUBIC AREA SMOOTH SHAVEN OR AT THE LEAST VERY WELLL TRIMMED Particularly interested in males playing alone thats interested in joining us for a mmf or mmmf. Hubby can watch or participate ...COLORCOLOR redSIZE 3BOur situation is a little unique, in that in addition to play partners we are also looking for a sperm donor, as for the reas she is a lover of sperm .. cumBSIZECOLORCOLOR greenSIZE 3My Ideal Per We are a couple with limited experience in the Lifestyle and looking for more to add to our experiences. Lets start by saying, we are not in high school and not looking to play any games. Fairly good looking and fit looking for same. We are looking for someone with whom we have some attraction, so if you are going to send us a message please send a full view pic of face and body. xrated not required but would be nice. Lets start by chatting to see if there is a connection, then maybe meeting for coffee and see what happens from there. Cleanness and Discretion Assured and Required..SIZE 6SIZECOLOR darkredCOLORSIZECOLOR

My Ideal Person a guy that is squeeky clean . slim to average ..humourous .. talkative ...can take the lead and break the ice so to speak without any promting .. .. very well endowed would be a plus hehehe .. prefer for a guy to be clean shaven down below or at the very least least be very well trimmed, picking or spitting hairs while sucking cock ruins the moment ... some one who has stamina .. endurance .. a very quick recovery .. and dont have to be 34 drunk first