Single male looking for once or twice a month, discreet and uncomplicated safe sexual relationship with a sensuous woman aged 37-44 in Ottawa. Seriously not interested in younger or older. This isn't about romance or finding a soul mate, I'm with POF and others for that, but still prefer pleasant manners, please. You're not a , we're just keeping each other sane and human.

My Ideal Person A slightly overweight, feminine Caucasean or South Asian woman, average to large breast size and dark hair preferred but not strictly, trimmed not smooth, sexually submissive yet creative, and not a screamer. Unrushed foreplay a must, and will normally include dining out or wine brought in. Your bed preferred. I'm not into rough sex, couples or groups, or fetishes. The fewer tattoos and piercings you have, the better.